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I see people getting married to people they’ve known for, like, a year and a half. A year and a half? Is that really enough time to get to know someone to know you want to spend the REST of your life with them? I mean, I’ve had sweaters for a year and a half and I was like, “What the fuck was I doing with this sweater?”

—Aziz Ansari   (via malibuize)

I’ve known people who were dating for 2 months another couple a year and then I know one that was together for 10 years before getting married and they all died married to that same person. I’ve also known people who were a couple for 6 years, married then divorced a couple years downs the road. It has nothing to do with length of time, it’s being your partners other half, it’s about balance, not letting teenage posts about how long you knew each other before getting married get to you, it’s about mental maturity and strength. Those pants were probably very good pants, you just weren’t ready to settle down with them;)

(Source: chagak, via guccier)









making my way downtown

still making my way downtown

downtown is farther than originally thought

seriously though did someone move downtown

maybe i should’ve taken the bus

Day 512: finally made it downtown

damn , the mall is closed . 

making my way back uptown

making my way downtown

still making my way downtown

downtown is farther than originally thought

seriously though did someone move downtown

maybe i should’ve taken the bus

Day 512: finally made it downtown

damn , the mall is closed . 

making my way back uptown

(Source: donkeybong, via a-cosmic-dancer)